I gave my kid this test.
How would you feel if killed by:
hungry bear
mother bear
rabit bat
lightening
hate crime
person you know, hostile
car accident
car accident by drunk
car accident by police
car accident by dog/cow/deer/endangered species in road
car accident by person in road
own stupid driving
own pharmacological misdeeds
own diet
own sport/exercise/injury
own plumbing (heart, stroke)
own cancer (fast, slow)
How would you feel?